I’ve said it many times and I’ll say it forever because I personally need the constant reminder as well, you cannot be happy with anyone else until you are happy with yourself.
Personally I have brought too many people in and out of my life trying to fill the void, trying to be happy and letting my happiness be dependent upon others approval and ideals of me.
Its dangerous. Its destructive.
I feel as if I’m constantly searching for something to please me, for things to be perfect when in all actuality I’m just fighting my self soul-searching and incapable of admitting I’m just not happy with my true self.
Its hard, it’s not an easy journey to find and create yourself but its even tougher if you are constantly trying to figure out who you are through the lives and words of others.
People change, situations change, nothing ever stays the same except who you are and the relationship you have with yourself. Giving others the power to make or break your heart and mindset will in the end destroy you unless you know and love yourself first.
“Some steps need to be taken alone. It’s the only way to really figure out where you need to be and who you need to be.”