Lifestyle, love

Have to love yourself first

The past 8 month I've been trying to force myself to be ready for someone else, I preach to myself and others constantly that in order to love someone else you must love yourself first but like most people I'm great at giving advice not taking it. I've spent the last 8 months mentally consuming… Continue reading Have to love yourself first

Lifestyle

Don’t leave crumbs

We all have things we don't want to do, we will do them later we say. In reality some of these things we put off really are just going to end up causing ourselves more stress and worry when they come back to bite us. That guy you borrowed money from a few months back,… Continue reading Don’t leave crumbs

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Say it before its too late

One thing I cannot stand about this generation were all in is no one is capable of communication. When snapchat and Facebook are the main source of everyone's conversations and relationships things get twisted, brushed aside or simply not spoken. No one knows their timeline, no one knows how long they have to say how… Continue reading Say it before its too late

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Happiness or self pity, you choose

We are all in full control of how we handle difficult situations and how we let them effect us. For instance, last week I had a very difficult conversation in which I had to take a step back and have a very serious self talk with myself about. Since I moved out of my home… Continue reading Happiness or self pity, you choose

Lifestyle

Self happiness

I've said it many times and I'll say it forever because I personally need the constant reminder as well, you cannot be happy with anyone else until you are happy with yourself. Personally I have brought too many people in and out of my life trying to fill the void, trying to be happy and… Continue reading Self happiness

Lifestyle, love

Stop Searching

  Daily I see too many people constantly looking for someone to make them happy, constantly complaining that they are all by themselves. My biggest word of advice is STOP! I've been there, confused and unsure of who I am. Feeling like if I just had the attention or love of someone new I would… Continue reading Stop Searching

Lifestyle, love

Self-love

Personally as bad as it sounds until now I don't remember the last time I allowed a male into my life whom was just a generally nice and respectful person without ulterior motives. At the beginning of any friendship/relationship you never know who is genuine, who is simply putting on a fa├žade to better themselves… Continue reading Self-love